Thursday, December 20, 2012

i found a usb full of pics of my partners ex wife and last gf.. what do i do?!

Some of these photos are Internet porn but some of the others are these photos with his ex wife and ex girlfriends faces and heads super imposed over them and they are naked! In several situations and scenarios. I know he's been looking at them regularly and i  need honest advice about confronting him or not. Thank you.
-D
 
 
Dear D,
I felt your pain while reading that. That would make me so upset if my partner was doing such a thing. A lot of guys do however have those types of files. I know a few of my friends that do, and it's really not uncommon. But the fact that your partner is looking at his ex wife and ex girlfriend is a little extreme. I would confront him immediatly. There could be another problem at hand here if he needs to even look at those pictures. I think you need to confront him that you have seen the file and are aware that he looks at it quite often, and see if there is something bothering him that he would need to look at those pictures. Porn is one thing, but when previous girls he was with come into the picture, you could have a problem. If you love him, confront him.. and be strong too, don't take any escuses. Ask him to delete the pictures too, you don't need that kind of stuff in relationships. If he loves you, he will delete them like you asked. Good luck, and stay strong.
-Jenna

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